Italian Men: Why Do They Love Black Women?

“I went to Italy, where Italian men love black women. My male friends here in the U.S. seem to think I’m exaggerating this when I bring it up, or act offended when I rave about the great time I had there and how much I enjoyed the unusual amount of attention and praise (yeah, I’ll admit it!). How do I explain to them that it’s not an attack on U.S. men — it’s just true? Also, what is going on over there, and how can we get American men in the same frame of mind?” –Into Italy

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Well, when it comes to Italian men, black women and “What is going on over there?” you’re not the first one to notice something. Not even close. It took about four seconds for me to confirm that, as I did some preliminary poking around in response to your question.

In addition to the (possibly legitimate? I don’t know, it looks a little sketchy) “Black Women Love Italian Men” blog, an initial search revealed a good-size handful of inquiring minds asking the non-experts at Yahoo questions similar to yours. There, at and on plenty of other forums, the Internet provided some very anecdotal and unofficial validations and explanations for what you experienced. Here’s a taste:

  • “There is this stereotype that black women are prostitutes or something like that. Anyway, just ignore that. Have fun!”
  • “I’m a mixed race woman married to an Italian, living in Northern Italy, and I can tell you your skin color does not matter to them.”
  • “Italian have a thing for sisters, and that’s a fact.”
  • “If you are wondering whether or not if Italian men really do love black women, the answer is, of course we do!”

Satisfied? Me, neither. And I thought your question was an interesting one that required a more authoritative take, especially because given recent headlines, the answer to “Why do Italian men love black women so much” very clearly isn’t “Because all black people are warmly embraced by all Italians.”

Quite the opposite. The country has had more than its fair share of bigotry and hate-fueled incidents over the past few months. Think bananas thrown at Cécile Kyenge, Italy’s first black government minister (prompting the Guardian to ask “Why Is Italy Still So Racist?”); hateful taunts against black soccer players that are practically as common as goals at games in the country; and, most recently, an Italian gymnast’s racist remarks after she lost to black U.S. gymnast Simone Biles.

Read more via Italian Men: Why Do They Love Black Women? – The Root.


4 thoughts on “Italian Men: Why Do They Love Black Women?

  1. I am a 1st generation Italian and I love black women. They are real and hip, confident and passionate much like us Italian men. They are sexy, vibrant women with a lot of fire and if they are really into you, they will worship you like a Roman god. We’re a good match emotionally and totally explosive in the bedroom. Just my personal experience with dating black women.


  2. I want to come to Italy , to experience the culture , the sights , the love and I hope to make it my home in my distant future , and a little island woman like me coming from the Caribbean Trinidad and Tobago for a matter of fact I hope to see Italy one day.


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